Sex, Relationship & Tantra Coach, Licensed Massage Therapist

An experiential and holistic approach: personalized sessions tailored to your specific needs

SERVICES

A supportive atmosphere of curiosity, consent, creativity, and exploration

I prioritize creating a safe, nurturing, and deeply attuned space where you can fully express yourself and feel met with compassion, presence, and care. Trusting the body’s innate wisdom and capacity to heal and transform, I support you in exploring and expanding your ability to live your most authentic, embodied, and vital life.

Coaching for Individuals, Couples, & Groups

175/hour

Expand your freedom to live and love with depth, connection, and joy. In this work, you are invited to explore your desires and to discover, honor, and express your boundaries. Through playful, embodied practices, attuned presence, and authentic communication, we’ll clear old blockages, release the patterns that stand in the way of intimacy and vitality, and uncover what truly brings you alive.

Massage Therapy

130/hour

With presence and care, I listen deeply to the rhythms of your body, allowing touch to become a pathway back to yourself. Finding where tension lives, I invite it to soften, melt, and release. Each session is slow, intentional, and attuned, creating space for you to drop into an oceanic state of relaxation where healing can naturally unfold.

Intimacy Bodywork

500 session

Awaken to increased sensation, pleasure, and aliveness through a deeply integrative full-body experience. With the space to move at your own pace, you’ll be supported in identifying and honoring your boundaries, feeling into your responses, and finding your way to relaxation, trust, safety and pleasure. By gently releasing long-held physical and emotional blockages, you'll create space for greater freedom, expanded sensation, and renewed vitality.

MY STORY

For much of my life, I have been fascinated by what allows people to feel truly alive—deeply connected to themselves, fully present in their bodies, and authentically connected with others. This passion has led me through studies in communication, conflict resolution, massage, Tantra, and psychology. Along the way, I discovered that healing, intimacy, pleasure, and personal growth are not separate pursuits, but different expressions of the same journey: coming home to ourselves.

In my work, I create spaces for people to slow down, listen deeply, and explore the richness of their embodied experience. Whether working with individuals or couples, my intention is to support greater self-awareness, authentic expression, meaningful connection, and a fuller experience of being alive.

My approach is experiential and relational. I weave together verbal process, somatic awareness, conscious touch, and Tantric principles to help clients explore their desires, boundaries, patterns, and untapped potential. Rather than offering answers, I create a safe and compassionate container where new experiences, insights, and possibilities can emerge. I believe that when we learn to trust ourselves, inhabit our bodies fully, and meet one another with honesty and attunement, life becomes richer, more vibrant, and more meaningful.

TESTIMONIALS

"What Ilana does is richer than "bodywork." She provided patient, intuitive touch that allowed my muscles to let go--but more profoundly, she offered my body and emotional process a space of release and integration. It was a deep experience with plenty of time and a feeling of deep care and respect. Ilana's work is nuanced, attuned, and customized. She blends a number of massage and energy work modalities into a really great body healing and balancing experience. She takes the time she needs and the massage never feels rushed."

"Ilana's work is clearly intuitive and done with centered attention and care. Each treatment feels customized to address my needs for the day and mood. She provides the patience and space to do amazing work. I love it!!"

"Ilana Grace is an earth angel. She has an immense capacity for compassion, understanding, and empathy. Her intuition guides her in a way that is hard to put into words. Her work goes far beyond the physical, encompassing subtler, more profound layers of being. Ilana is a skilled practitioner with much more to offer than technique alone. I highly recommend experiencing her magic!!"

"Ilana Grace has a magical touch. She makes me feel so safe and seems to know just what I need on any particular day. She does not have one routine that she repeats with every visit. To say "best massage I've ever had" understates the experience. As part of my work, I am regularly measuring my HRV and tracking the metrics that show cardiac health, state of autonomic nervous system, and systemic stress and energy. I've had fair experience with massage of different sorts. Most help my muscle knots. Ilana changed my entire autonomic system's performance. Nothing has moved the needle like this since I started HRV tracking. she reads my body and crafts her massage and approach with great care and intuition. I highly recommend Ilana to anyone looking for a unique and very healing massage!"

"Ilana is fabulous! I have had many massages in my life, but I don't think I've ever experienced such a transformation. Ilana expertly released my tightest areas, some of which had bothered me for weeks. I felt like a new woman walking out."

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I accept cash, check, Venmo and Zelle
24-hour notice is required when rescheduling or cancelling a session - late cancellations will result in a $75 fee
Please let me know if you have taken any pain or mood altering substances on the day of your session
Relationship and sex coaching are not psychotherapy. I am not a licensed mental health practitioner

Ilana Grace LMT, ABS

13579 Haas Ct, Rough and Ready, CA, USA

email: ilana.grace@outlook.com phone: 425.765.6733

Sex, Relationship & Tantra Coach, Licensed Massage Therapist

Specializing in massage therapy, Tantra, sex & relationship coaching, and conflict resolution

SERVICES